闲人

There is talk about destiny. Yet people have choices. People do not necessary have free will, yet people have choices.

The only way that destiny can make you do something is to make you like it. Let you be born with the desire to achieve that something. I think that I'm not born to do something, rather, through both nature and nurture, there will be something so appealing to me that I would give my life to it. That is my destiny. To find something worth giving life for, and to give my life to it.

Little things in life give messages to your subconscious. What's appealing (adjective) to you is also appealing (verb) to your subconscious. What you like or not tells you a lot about yourself.