闲人

Perhaps freedom lies in not wanting to be elsewhere. Not in the sense that "This is great, there's nowhere else I'd rather be", but simply the acknowledgment that you are where you are at the present moment, and nothing can change that. Change does happen, but can only be attained at another moment or at the end of a series of moments; at this particular moment, what you have is what you have. No amount of wanting change at this precise moment can create change at this precise moment.

If we look at suffering, it is precisely that, the wanting right now what is not possible right now. If we expand precise moments to a general sense of now, if we can change something we don't like we'll change it and we don't need to suffer the unpleasantness of the thing. It is only when it can't be changed, or can't be changed right now that we feel suffering. Yet what causes suffering is not the unchangeability of the situation, but rather the wanting of impossible change.